Okay, good day yesterday went downhill. I have no idea what to think of this, if it's true feelings or what.....
All was good yesterday, went to C in the evening. She told me that she believes it's time to let H know we need to talk and during that talk I need to flat out ask him what he's thinking about this M and if he's planning on coming back or not. I made sure to ask her if she thinks this is going to backfire, scare him off, etc. She told me that if it scares him off then he's not coming back. This lady has MLC listed as one of her specialties.
H happened to call last night around 9pm when he had a free moment from work. We chatted for a few, very friendly, good convo and then he talked to D for about 5-10 mins. She put me back on the phone and I asked him what he though about us meeting for lunch again to talk. He said "I told you we would, YOU cancelled on ME the last time and now I have to reschedule it is all. I asked him "that's what I'm saying, do you know when you'd like to get together so we can both go over things?" He said he didn't know with next week being busy. I asked him if he's done with this M and he said "Yep, I'm done. Bye." and hung up on me. He turned off his phone and hasn't had it on since.
Last week when we were supposed to meet, he told me that this lunch date was a good thing to get us together again and talking. I asked him if he's going to talk about divorce, then let's not make it a lunch date since I didn't want to come back to work upset. He said it's not that since that's not what he wants. Now he's saying he's done???
Should I take it as he's really done then? Or are these just emotions from being stressed from work, etc?
