be positive and try be the "place" where he will want to "stay."
This is exactly what I am working on. Last evening was a lot more positive and I have to admit "reassuring" for me. He had to be @ work at 4a.m. so he went to bed pretty early, but asked me to "tuck him in." So I went in & we just lay there & he thanked me for cuddling w/ him for a bit. He was showing me that he loves me and that everything is fine. Don't get me wrong, I didn't make a HUGE deal out of the way I was feeling the last couple of days, but he knew I was feeling a bit insecure etc.
Anyway, big weekend. Middle son's 4th bday was this past week so we have his bday party this weekend. Out of town in-laws etc.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
