Here we go again...long need to vent

[Starshyne]

Honey,
I am so sorry that you had to go through all of this. The police were at my home 3 times throughout my mess and I still can't believe it.

Be careful. I am sure your H is sincere. My H was also. He would tell me how he wishes he never met her, that he hated her that he wanted to be with me and not her because I was sucha better person. However like a drug he is addicted to, my H kept going back to her time and time again. This is still happening to this day. He breaks up with her and then gets back with her. It is like she has super powers that are stronger than his own desires and will. You need to have your guard up and you might need to double check if he is really where he says he is.

He really needs to write that no contact letter. Mine never would and that was a red flag to me that he didn't want to move on. Your H needs to show action along with the sobbing and the words. What he is going to do so that this awful OW is out of your lives?

I am on my way out of town this weekend but will check up on you again on Monday. I am praying for you and praying that your situation does not turn outlike mine. Hang in there and keep doing things that benefit yourself!

Sara