"Poet--any thoughts for how we should start this off? Should we all just look at each others' threads and each of us offer advice/thoughts for the various situations?"
Hello there, I'm not a guru. I do know that having at least one wise sage from this DB group to follow my thread has been very helpful. I probably would have sunk already without it. We all need at least one. I've noticed there are several on here. Puppy Dog Tails, Smartcookie, Jack-three-beans, One Day, SG, TwinDad etc., etc. And there are a lot more too.
One idea is to ask one of the "DB sages" -- possibily someone who has busted their divorce, and/or someone who you feel "connected" with -- to come visit your thread and follow it.
Isthere, would you like to be the "secretary?" I mean, maybe keep a list of the positive ideas and pull them forward on the thread, say once or twice a week? That way we could all have it in our faces, all the time. Just an idea.
Any other suggestions? There is hope for all of us. poet