Just checking in on you. I think that your ideas in reply to my previous post were great! I know how hard it is to let these things go and trust that they will work. I always think to myself "how can they ever just work out. I have to make them work out" but it is simply not true. Things will undo themselves and I believe our husbands will work these things out for themselves once we give them the time and space they need. It's working wonders for me and I really think it can help you alot! Just hang in there and focus on things interaction by interaction. I love thinking about the "big picture" and how the future will look but in this kind of situation it will only drive you insane because of the uncertainty surrounding it.
