Hi Mattie,

What next will you have to face. they do take a different face all of a sudden or did we just not see it. I look at my H now and see a man I don't know at all. My divorce will be final in the next 2 weeks. He still has OW and living with her and taking her every where. His family is very supportive of me. I made this business deal with his brother and then he came back now I have to deal with H every day for a couple of months. He is Dr Jeryl and Mr. hyde. I'm sure he doesn't show the Ow the real side of his self. She is buttering up my oldest S24. He knows what she is and he doesn't tell me alot. My MIL told me to night the OW got my S a job for a business they needed a guy just like him to advertise their business so she iron all his clothes to wear. Granted he is 24 but she doesn't pay attention to her 4 kids that live with their dad how dare she try ot win over mine. It really hurts. I know he didn't tell me so it wouldn't hurt my feelings but it really does. That is one thing I was was a good mother. And I have good kids. I am just venting. You have so much on your mind I am sorry.

I haven't posted for a while. Mattie do take care of yourself.
I am sorry for hijacking your post. I need to do my own again. I was just feeling so bad tonight and there is no one around.
Thanks for letting me vent.