sandi thank you so much. I REALLY need the opposite gender's perspective. i use aol (AIM) and sometimes i'll leave lyrics to a song on there, and I go over to our house and i'll find in the web browsers history that she was trying to find the song title and the rest of the lyrics i agree with you that she likes to keep tabs on me; I haven't asked her what she was up to in almost a month. she makes it a point to tell me when something eventful happens though. i'm still getting used to that whole "don't believe what she says" bit. like you said she wont' admit things to herself let alone anyone else so I get it a tiny bit. this OM basically is at her beck and call. he'll bend over backwards for her. If i was a woman, that would get irritating after a bit i think. I am showing some resistance to her.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
i agree with you that she likes to keep tabs on me; I haven't asked her what she was up to in almost a month. she makes it a point to tell me when something eventful happens though. i'm still getting used to that whole "don't believe what she says" bit. like you said she wont' admit things to herself let alone anyone else so I get it a tiny bit. this OM basically is at her beck and call. he'll bend over backwards for her. If i was a woman, that would get irritating after a bit i think. I am showing some resistance to her.