Letting God Take Control Part 15

[plentyhope]

If I were to send my W a text, should I ask how she is doing, or the the other day when she said "I will talk to you later" should I ask her about that or what she meant?

Sooners,
You could just say something like "Hope you are doing well." and leave it at that. I agree with Steelers - don't ask her what she meant by "Talk to you later." People often say that to mean "goodbye", rather than actually making contact to talk.

[sooners7xchamps]

Thanks SF,

I had to tell her how much the car insurance was. On the end of that I just said that I hope she is ok.

Even though I don't agree with what all she is doing, shouldn't I stay Godly and try to kill her with kindness no matter what she does, and if so how do you think this will impact her over time? Some of you have been on this road longer than me. What are your thoughts?

[sooners7xchamps]

Thanks SF,

I had to tell her how much the car insurance was. On the end of that I just said that I hope she is ok.

Even though I don't agree with what all she is doing, shouldn't I stay Godly and try to kill her with kindness no matter what she does, and if so how do you think this will impact her over time? Some of you have been on this road longer than me. What are your thoughts?

[sooners7xchamps]

Thanks SF,

I had to tell her how much the car insurance was. On the end of that I just said that I hope she is ok.

Even though I don't agree with what all she is doing, shouldn't I stay Godly and try to kill her with kindness no matter what she does, and if so how do you think this will impact her over time? Some of you have been on this road longer than me. What are your thoughts?

[sooners7xchamps]

Thanks SF,

I had to tell her how much the car insurance was. On the end of that I just said that I hope she is ok.

Even though I don't agree with what all she is doing, shouldn't I stay Godly and try to kill her with kindness no matter what she does, and if so how do you think this will impact her over time? Some of you have been on this road longer than me. What are your thoughts?

[sooners7xchamps]

Thanks SF,

I had to tell her how much the car insurance was. On the end of that I just said that I hope she is ok.

Even though I don't agree with what all she is doing, shouldn't I stay Godly and try to kill her with kindness no matter what she does, and if so how do you think this will impact her over time? Some of you have been on this road longer than me. What are your thoughts?

[sooners7xchamps]

Thanks SF,

I had to tell her how much the car insurance was. On the end of that I just said that I hope she is ok.

Even though I don't agree with what all she is doing, shouldn't I stay Godly and try to kill her with kindness no matter what she does, and if so how do you think this will impact her over time? Some of you have been on this road longer than me. What are your thoughts?

[sooners7xchamps]

Thanks SF,

I had to tell her how much the car insurance was. On the end of that I just said that I hope she is ok.

Even though I don't agree with what all she is doing, shouldn't I stay Godly and try to kill her with kindness no matter what she does, and if so how do you think this will impact her over time? Some of you have been on this road longer than me. What are your thoughts?

[plentyhope]

sooners,

I think your text sounds fine.

It's good to be kind to her. Please be sure that the kindness doens't come across as pursuing her. That would be my word of caution.

[sooners7xchamps]

Hey PH,

Thanks for your thoughts, the message above is pretty much what I sent and that was what I was trying to achieve, kind but not pursuing. I just mentioned that I hope she is ok. I wanted more but figured it would be to pushy.