I loved the images of you and your daughter. The bond shows.
ya know it's funny..we went to WalMart..she always wants to look at the fish..anyway while going through the store and pushing he rin the cart she would yell Daddy stop..I'd stop the cart and she would hug me..I'd move the cart again, 10 feet later she would do the same thing..
As for the sewer..I just don't see the chitt ever stopping. I really don't. I don't have any hope that it will and I damn sure don't expect it.
I don't know why I have to get the f'in crazy ones..I really don't.
I'm so stoked you and D2 had an awesome time it was long in coming you both needed it IMO ;)!!! Now don't anybody take this the wrong way...there is just something different to a dad when he has a little girl at least for me. When the D's were that young as Mikes it just did something to me hard to explain...
Don't have regrets about it man, the point is that you have your angel now that's all that matters you know that...
Man I wish I could say it gets easier without them but it don't you can't replace that everyday interaction with them just sucks...
Here is my take on the drama, you had 1 of the 2 constants in W life right now, you had D2 and she didn't like it throw in you forgot about the 2nd constant and you had a 5 alarm fire on your hands. As we have talked about my sitch in yours D2 is her crutch as are the dogs they are her only security in the world she has created for herself and you took 1 crutch for the day and the 2nd crutch you stuck in the corner not on purpose but she doesn't see it that way. She was in a tail spin and let you know it. She had to get control back and she did that with the threat and going through the boxes, that put 'her' world back into prespective.
Good on you for just going through the boxes with her, you saw that as being the only way you were going to get the peace back, you were calm and let it roll right off proud of you for defusing what could have been real ugly and nasty. As far as the locks you know she can't to it until the D is final so she will just have to find a way to deal with it until then so sad too bad.
Mike it is past a FUBAR it is a full blown Cluster F'k!!!
You did good my friend...
I would like some more Apple Moonshine now please...
by the way..you hijackers suck..you're all here having fun, stealing beers and I come on in my moment of need and you guys run like hell and leave me with Racefan???
by the way..you hijackers suck..you're all here having fun, stealing beers and I come on in my moment of need and you guys run like hell and leave me with Racefan???
Wha's up wi dat???
Oh wahhhhh you need your diaper changed or what?
Your W is on one of those binges they all go on where they just like to bitch and complain about everything. She is getting what she asked for and she doesn't like it one bit.
That is the reality here Mike. You are walking away and she doesn't like that. You are moving on and she doesn't like that. You are no longer her puppet and she doesn't like that.
Anything you brought into the marriage, that is a pretty broad spectrum. Like I said, talk to your lawyer and get his answers. Personally, I would get it all out in one full swoop. Enough of this here and there crap, go in and get out.
You should have fed the dogs by the way, only takes a minute....... Not for her, but to eliminate an excuse for her to be a bitch.
I walked in the house with D at 7:10..DBSTBX got home at 7:40. I let the dogs out when I got in, taking care of D and getting her settled in. Those dogs were really in distress for that 30 minutes..I noticed they were by how they romped and played outside..
here's the deal on the dogs..my Daughter gets my attention when I'm with her, not the dogs. The dogs had water. My DBSTBX came in 30 minutes after me. Of course I tried to explain this to DBSTBX but that fell on her deaf ears..
and yes, before you swing that 2x4 again..read your email please.
and for the rest..Yes, I'm venting this morning.
Last edited by M from Tennessee; 08/08/0812:18 PM.
