Sad that she didn't have any confidence in herself then or now. I am really sorry that this has been so hard for you. If you weren't 5 hours a way I would be giving you a big hug and her a smack upside the head saying "Snap out of it"!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory