Karen; Thanks sweetheart for checking in on me and posting your thoughts.
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Karen: I just let him get away with it over and over though which now I realize was so wrong of me. I don't understand why people would lie like that though??
I went through my marriage with blinders on, always looking for the best in W, overlooking her faults, which is a double edge sword, your trying to look for the good but not addressing the evil. When I did address the problems, I got nowhere, so over time I guess I stop trying.
I don't think its your fault or mine, we were willing to try. We were not the ones lying, we were always looking for the good in our S. Now they have pushed us to a point where there is only one option for us, really no option, but to move on with our lives without them and keep being the best we can for ourselves, for our kids.
We have no control over them, its not our choice. There has to be some good people out there for us, I hope we find them. I pray to God, that he/she will bring true love into my life again. Its going to have to be a very good woman to want me and 4 kids.
Thanks again Karen, Its late, sweetdreams,
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
