Hey guys, thanks so much for the support. I just knew afterwards that I had closed the book on any chances I MIGHT have had left with the wifer. But it was a good talk.
I SWEAR I hate the term, "....just a friend."
Well, if you did the right thing, which I think you did (and I think everyone else does too) then if that closes the door on your chances with W then so be it. That's her bad choice!
I hate that term too! And the friend zone and all those kind of things. Kat's been discussing that too, and I've been thinking about that too lately. I mean I think I have to be friendly with my H when he's ex-H b/c that's just my nature, but I don't really want to be friends either with all the unfriendly stuff he's done in the past year. Can you be friendly with someone and not be friends though? Karen