Oh Sh!t, HM! What did you do when you found that out?
Actually, it was before I knew she was OW. H told me he ran into her on a hospital tour when he took a new job. She was a girlfriend from 20+ years ago. I knew there was just a teensy bit too much excitement in his voice when he was telling me about her, her horse farm, and her first horse with my name! Two months later, they're talking about spending the rest of their lives together and my marriage is over. I can only hope this horse throws her hard!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012