This I dont think you mean what your H is doing is ok and you are not desperate Just like the rest of us woman and men who want to save their M and Family I see it as an act of courage and faith not failure Your H is confused and he like mine wants to avoid any confrontations or any reality checks they are running..they think from us and maybe my M was not all great..we had problems I wasnt happy either but i still believe they run from themselves and their own demons of the past maybe the recovery for us comes as we allow and process our grief(maybe with help of a T) as you have then remake our lives as best we can as single moms caring for our kids creating a new social life working making friends get a new hobby helping others God pma
with my H i tried everything we were friends I was very available I listened validated,, thanked him cooked, kept house clean ect then I went dim for a while little talk kind of mysterious went out alot he knew I was dancing with men/didnt care it didnt matter cause nothing changed he is gone deep in his own whatever maybe MLC maybe not i dont know I realize my chances are slim at this point but one never knows so I have chosen to move forward whatever that means I think it feels right to let H go If he wants to reconcile, we can talk if not, I am already planning on a new life without Him I hope for you the best peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
