I got divorced last December. I have three kids, 17, 14, and 3. Your H sounds like my ex with his spending. Mine buys $300.00 cigars, can you imagine!!!! He smokes 3 a month.
I could not agree more regarding their stupidity. As much as I hated to get divorced, if I would not of, I would be sleeping on a park bench somewhere. He was spending at a rate of 50,000 -70,000 per month. I had no choice. He was 3 days away from taking out the equity in our home.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
