S12 called H to tell him about new turtle. Asked to speak to me. Confirmed his days next week with the kids. I said I guess. Then he briefly talked about the turtle, I kept it light. Asked if he wanted to speak to S again, said no. Said ok bye. Did ask him where he was as it was echoing, said in the tv room at home. Oh, told him I paid the babysitter, he can pay her next week and we would be even. But tried to keep it brief, light and to the point then end it.


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08