My sister in law the counselor and attorney who resides on the east coast told me that when they review the financials, it is the judge who can order him that to get a second job to pay for what the courts have ordered him to pay.

I am just going by what she said as I have never been thru a divorce and I hope to God I never have to.

I feel for all of you.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19