I decided to make the move to Surviving rather than bunny hop to Separated.
I cannot believe the man I thought was the most honorable, kind, generous, caring, sweet, loving person I could ever meet is going to be my ex-husband. It's very surreal.
In a nutshell: *Married August 13, 2004 *Another person has been involved on an emotional level since year two. *I freaked out during a vacation that included this OW (my former best friend). A living Hell ensued. *Found DB and have been busting my ass since March to no avail. *In late July we decided enough was enough - time to divorce. *I'm moving this week. *I'm more confident than I've ever been and know I'll be happy again.
Drinks are on me.
xo
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence