Well, I don't like this guy, but I love him. The real him, or the old him, or whatever you want to call it. I guess I can't accept that the man we all knew for so long can be completely gone. But right now I don't like him one bit.
My H had the nerve to tell me that he couldn't take the kids for his scheduled July visitation because he didn't have enough money for groceries to feed them. But then he magically had enough money to take them on a five day trip to Florida!! The truth was that he didn't want to have to inconvenience himself by taking care of the kids at his apt. for that long, or inconvenience the parasitic whore by making her move out for a week or two.
How is it that they can pay for stupid stuff or take expensive vacations, then whine that they don't have the money to buy groceries?
Sorry to hear that your H is being so irresponsible with money. Sorry also to read that you've been struggling with depression. Me, too. Ugh.
Trusting---sorry for the thread hijack. I can't remember your exact timeline---how old were your kids when your H left? And it looked like your H was peeking out of the tunnel for just a bit. Has that stopped for now? Was this the first time?
TPaschal
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(
