How do you deal with him talking to her like that in front of you? My H goes outside when he talks to her too because I asked him to give me respect and not talk to her in our house, but it's not as if it helps me anymore this way because I know darn well who he is on the phone with so I know he is still talking to her.
I definitely know what you are going through though.
((((happycamper))))
M: 25, H: 29 T: 4 years M: 11 months Bomb (ILYBNILWY): 7/11/08 Found out about OW: 7/12/08 Seperated but living together