Originally Posted By: JeffSTL
W told me she would bring it over to my house, I thought I would finally get her address. W pulled off address section and took it with her. Why dosn't she want me to know where she lives. I know she isn't afraid of me, I never laid a hand on her ever. I wouldn't do anything with the information, I'm not a stalker \:D what does she think I would do with the information, sit outside her appartment when she has the kids, I have more important things to do with my time. Hire a Private Investigator, for what reason, I'm getting everything I want in the D.

Very strange

My H was the same; wouldn't/didn't tell me his address actually ever, but they put it on the divorce paperwork so you should find out then. I think maybe another thing a lot of our WAS have in common is being secretive. I plan in my next R to find someone that's not secretive and fairly transparent. I mean I'm transparent b/c I have nothing to hide, and I think many of our WAS do have stuff they are hiding/don't want us to know so they are secretive. My H was always a bit secretive through the entire marriage. When you read about those people with the 2nd family or the spy job or something, I always thought that my H could have a secret job or family with as secretive as he always was and I wouldn't be surprised--so probably shouldn't have been too surprised he had an affair either. Karen


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D18, S24