You're doing well, you've got it right. You're W wants it all her way, but reality is quite different and she's feeling that big time. You are doing the right thing by remaining peaceful, friendly, polite, unselfish, joyful, and moving forward with your life. She would love some company down in her pit of despair, but you are a rock that need not go there.
It may take a long time for her to realize life is better in reality with you and her family, than life in her imaginary world. She may never get there, but then again, she just might turn the corner as my W did. It took several years though so don't be in a hurry.
Take care my brother, and the Holy Spirit continue to guide you.
God Bless,
COG
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444
