Ok, to give DB the benefit of the doubt, how can you DB when you know the R you want back is very unhealthy for you? At time of writing 1) H does not want to change (for me anyway) and is certain he would be unfaithful again, 2) is happy to be financially irresponsible, 3) doesn't see me as sexual at all and hasn't for years and 4) doesn't think he can be honest with me. The only reason he told me all the stuff is that we were friends and not marriage partners.

I don't want a R with him, it's too frightening. Do I still consider DB? (I can hear all my friends shouting "NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!")

Last edited by happycamper; 08/07/08 10:28 PM.
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09
Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3
Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08