my h was a spender before and now oh my oh my -- he is really broke!! REALLY! AND of course the first email he sent after getting fired was to me to tell me that he would not be paying his childsupport/alimony this month. (funny he doesn't know what the courts can do....) mine NEVER allows ANYONE to hold him accountable. NEVER - ahhhhhhhh
anyway--- i too snoop still and my h is still spending. but the wierd thing? not on big stuff..stupid spendign..jsut plain stupid!! and when/if i have to take him to court to get what he owes me (he was suppose to be paying me back for some other stuff) i wonder wht the judge will say if heh gets a look at his checking account.
what i can't figure out is just the continual stupidity. BUT mroe than that the fact that i still like the guy!!!
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again