Hi Steelers, We got such a lot of rain this afternoon, there would have been enough to send you some - LOL.
I had another nice afternoon. Initially, I wanted to go swimming, but then it already got cloudy and I decided to just go for an ice cream to a local restaurant. After about one hour of sitting there on my own, I wanted to go for a short walk and ran into two friends. They were on the way to the same restaurant and asked me to join them! So I did. Suddenly the sky got very dark and we all "ran" home before the downpour. I just made it in time to close all blinds.
In the evening a GF called me and I told her what I did lately. She thought that I got to know quite a few people. I said that I did get to know some nice people, but they are just acquaintances not real friends, and they never call me to do something or meet them. But I do appreciate having got to know them.
I was thinking of nlt today. This could have easily happened to me if we did not have the law of a cooling off period of two years before the D. A friend told me that H told her at the beginning of his A that H wanted to M OW as soon as possible and spend as much money as he could, so there would not be much left for me!!!!! (He did not think that there would not be much left for him either - LOL.) So whether he really intended to M OW or just said it to string her along I don't know. Anyway, H (and MIL) told me that they broke up, but I don't really believe it.
I finally send H a reply to his e-mail. It was friendly and not emotional but full of facts. I also told him that HE will have to do all the paper work if he wants a D. I am already prepared to get the answer that he wants a D.