My FIL was just here and he said he told my H about a month ago that I was at my wits end with this sitch and that I had just about had enough.
FIL wanted to get together with my H to talk to him about the situation and my H refused to meet him to talk about it.
This has to be a bad sign.
I take it that H doesn't want to listen to ideas or advice about the situation. H respects his Dad's opinion so much. H also knows that his Dad and entire family wants to see us back together again.
IS THIS A BAD SIGN THAT H REFUSED TO TALK WITH HIS DAD????
I guess I will wade in with my thoughts. First, let me say that this is all bulls***, I mean that in every sense of the word. I am not saying that about you, I am saying it about him. If you don't want to file, that's your business, but expect a long time of a lot of crap. If you are willing to take it, I understand and applaud you for it. You have been through this for 35 or 36 months, and virtually nothing has changed, I don't see any reason to think that it will. I don't mean to be negative, but I am trying to be realistic. Personally, I would meet him, throw sand in his eyes, kick him between the legs, then go file. That;s the only language these morons understand!
