If you are anything like I was then you are confused and you are second guessing your decision to walk away, but your heart is not in it anymore. I told my therapist way back when I want to want to make it work. She was unable to help me with this b/c I was not seeing any changes in our M by not finding solutions. When we seek and find solutions to the difficulties in our marriages it provides hope. It doesn't sound like you are experiencing this in MC which is why I suggest seeking help outside MC where the sole purpose is to find solutions. My heart goes out to you. I know this is a confusing time. I hope that you are spared the hurt that I experienced when I decided to save my marriage but it was to late.
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