When people feel guilty leaving, a blame game starts. If this wasn't so bad, if you would have done this.. etc. etc etc. It's a smoke screen for their own emotions.
No one is perfect. We all do our best and not so best in life. What seems the most unfair is when someone important abruptly leaves everything. If only I'd had a chance to know.. If only I was given a chance to work on it.. If if if..
"If's" are a ball and chain that keep you from moving forward. There's nothing you can do about his actions, his thought process, where he's at.
Taking care of yourself, getting enough emotion out to start moving, to free yourself from blame all improve where you are. Use this force for good.. not bitterness.
Channel the energy you feel into you, into improving your life. Stop worrying about the guilt of things in the past. Feeling guilty works against you. Being positive works for you.
Like you hear all the time.. actions speak louder than words. Hello to the new you!
