You are angry and we have been where you have but it is not worth it to call her or confront her. You would be giving her more power and leverage over your husband.
And if you were to do this, your H would run further away from you and right to her.
I know what is happening is not right but there is nothing you can do to stop your H from his lifestyle or what he is doing.
You can pray for him but please pull yourself together and concentrate on you and your family.
You will have to let your H be for now as nothing you say or do will matter at the moment.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
