N_A, I also SOOOO envy you. My H and I have been piecing for months now and there is still no talk of us ever moving back in with each other. Instead i get to listen to my H talk about his goal of buying a camp on his own and renting a new apartment around town because he hates the one he is in.
I do hear the ILY's but I am not seeing it much in his actions and it is so scary to me. So I know adjusting to his moving back in is hard, but it is something that each of us here dreams about. So I guess, try to be happy and not let the past creep in too much. If it does, learn ways to not take it out on him. I have done this also, and it always backfires and leads to a fight in which he threatens again to be done with our M.
Keep your head up, you sound like you have a lot of progress to be happy about. TIPPER