Sorry TwinDad. You didn't offend and I can understand where you are coming from. You'd have to work a lot harder to offend me than that.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
well in the DR Michelle does clearly state that somethings will feel very unnatural at first so maybe this is what the feeling of "faking" it means... it just feels not right- but that doesn't mean its not good to do.
i have felt unnatural when not bringing up my stuff and acting as if.
i think acting as if is very important and feels like faking sometimes- BUT then it becomes natural. new behaviors learned. not fun but good and these are growing pains right now Neil...
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
Twin Dad, I bet if you asked Neil the 2x8's hardly hurt at all. SMW, sorry if you were blamed for my lumber.
Look guys, I have to go to class tonight and concentrate and I just don't know if I can. I want to be at HOME with my HUSBAND. Ok. I got that out of my system now. Trying to cram the homework and my head hurts with it all.
Neil,
Make a statement tonight. Just something fun. Like, I was thinking about this great memory. Do you remember.... and then tell what you were thinking about. When you are done she'll ask why you were thinking about it and you can tell her because it made you happy to remember. Then walk away.
Its simple, its quick, and my grandmother taught me to do it. She called it planting seeds of what you wanted the other person to be thinking about.
It can't be anything too mushy, just something fun or happy or interesting. Something positive that you would both remember. It usually works like a charm. I haven't done it in a while, but I think I'm going to.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
