I just caught up with the latest. I know you want to be friends with your xh, but he's not the same man you used to know. Give him time to return to his former self before moving ahead with a friendship. Otherwise, I'm afraid this cycle will continue. I don't want your heart broken over and over again.
And I agree with Beth and Kris - give him a deadline to get his stuff out of your garage. Tell him it's getting donated to the Salvation Army if it isn't out by 12:00 p.m. on ______ __, 2008.
Stay strong, Sara. I'm incredibly proud of how far you've come.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
