Where do I go from here? pt. 2

[forward]

T, I wouldn't send either letter. If S wants to talk about things w/his dad, he should tell him. Just my opinion.

My ILs are also baffled and I suspect H's ties with them are minimal right now. But they have not rallied to my support to speak of.

As far as the head case OW, I figure maybe she is less screwed up than I thought, but I think she's every bit as immature as I might guess and then some, as friend told me this.

But then, H is off in la-la land and I think he will be there for a while. I am on a patio in the sun writing this, and feeling pretty peaceful. Life will go on.