Well, guess what??
My H has been contacting ow again. He DID shut off the "secret" cell phone, but then has started calling her on his other one again. I went online to pay the bill and looked at the bill details and there are hours of calls to ow on it. He has lied about that, and I guess lied about ow going back to her H, because the number he is calling is the house she was living in by herself.

I just found out thirty minutes ago...

Now the sticky part is how to confront him. I don't really want him to know I can see the phone call details, but need to let him know I know he is at it again.
I mean he is talking about OUR future, and probably talking to ow about THEIR future, too.
This is really pi**ing me off, and I need to calm down before I say or do something rash.

I feel like such a fool, and he led me on to believe that he was into US now.

I wonder if I should call him and tell him I know.

I realize you can only belive half of what they do and none of what they say, or something like that, but darn he is a better actor than I gave him credit for.

I am just sick over this.

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