Thank you for that. I'm not sure I could do this but I will think about it for sure.
Right now I'm not responding to him at all. The paralegal told me there is nothing in that contract to say that I have to prove to him I refinanced the house so I'm just not going to respond. He will have to call me to get me to do anything. He knows who we financed the house with he can call them & give them his SS# & they will tell him it has been paid off. I went with another mortgage company.
I know I've got to move on, but right now I'm having a really hard time! I'm still in shock & can't believe it.