Upside it does sound like so much progress for your h. He isn't ready anytime soon to make your place his home.

Keep doing what you are doing. It seems to be working.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"