I replied to your question on my thread. I think your son was ready for the truth and he came to the person that he knew would/could tell him. You did fine. Let him know that he can always come to you if he has more questions and that everything that you do is out of love for them and their mother.
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I think you did the right thing too. He knows he has a truthful person he can talk to, and I think that's a good thing. I think it's horrible that my H lies to the kids and says the OW is just a friend. My S14 knew that wasn't true, and can't be good for him to have a dad like that: a cheater and a liar--great role model.
