i like when everything is not all left up to me. After being on my own for so long and having to make all the decisions and do everything (even when I was in relationships) it is hard for me sometimes to allow someone else to do that.

i love when i get a kiss on the neck

the morning snuggle

taking the things I think are negative about myself and spinning them in a positive light

someone who reads is attractive
and
who is smart (yummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm)

who challenges me to think on a different level

someone who can disagree without thinking it is a fight

someone who is attracted to me but is also attracted to my other attributes

someone who is soft and hard at the same time
like i like a guy who works on cars (siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh) then can come in and talk about something sweet and mushy
(because I am not so sweet and mushy)
i like them to bring that side of me out