NLT I have been thinking about you and this is what came to me this morning when I awoke. This may be bold and out there, but I will just throw it out there. I am not saying do this just maybe ponder this.
I have always tried to be the better person in life meaning take the high road vs getting back at someone etc. I was thinking if this happened to me what would I do how would I react.
Now again this is what I would do. I would find h's address at work and buy a congrats card and address to him and send to his work.
Short message inside something like:
Hi H, I recieved news that you are married now. I just wanted to personally send my congrats to you. I am sorry our m didn't work out for us, but I am happy that you have finally found what you were looking for. All I ever wanted was for you to be happy. OW is lucky to have found a special person like you, I know I was married to you for 15 years.
Best of luck to both of you, Love NLT
For me, it would put closer to my life as well as let h know that there was no bad feelings between us. It makes you the better person.
This may not be your style and not for you, but I just threw it out there.
You have no other choice but to move on now NLT.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"