NLT I have been thinking about you and this is what came to me this morning when I awoke. This may be bold and out there, but I will just throw it out there. I am not saying do this just maybe ponder this.

I have always tried to be the better person in life meaning take the high road vs getting back at someone etc. I was thinking if this happened to me what would I do how would I react.

Now again this is what I would do. I would find h's address at work and buy a congrats card and address to him and send to his work.

Short message inside something like:

Hi H, I recieved news that you are married now. I just wanted to personally send my congrats to you. I am sorry our m didn't work out for us, but I am happy that you have finally found what you were looking for. All I ever wanted was for you to be happy. OW is lucky to have found a special person like you, I know I was married to you for 15 years.

Best of luck to both of you, Love NLT

For me, it would put closer to my life as well as let h know that there was no bad feelings between us. It makes you the better person.

This may not be your style and not for you, but I just threw it out there.

You have no other choice but to move on now NLT.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"