How do you let go of the resentment...

[kat727]

I don't know how long it takes to get over it because I am not fully there myself yet. I do think I have accepted it. The divorce is going to be final someday soon and I am going to live my life. I still have 4 kids to raise, still have all the things I had before and I still have hope. Just a different kind. I am not necessarily hoping my H will get his head out of the...sand, but hope that I will have a better life because I am in the driver's seat. He may try to every once and a while hop in and try to grab the wheel but I have a pretty good grip on it.

Take the focus off of them and put it on you and your girls. GAL. It is all about choices. I had a dilemma just Sunday. I had gotten into an argument with H and was to the point of crying. I decided after he left with the kids that I could either spend the rest of the afternoon crying or I could go do something. I went to the movies, had fun and came and had a short crying spell and felt so much better. Do something similiar yourself. Hope that helped.

kat