Your h is making so much progress. Good news, but it also sounds like he's holding back a bit, with the password and living at your house. I'd suggest not bringing up moving into your house at this point. He's obviously not comfortable with it RIGHT NOW and that doesn't mean that he won't get more comfortable as time goes on and your r improves. Is there anything you can add to your house that would make him feel more comfortable? Do you have any pictures of his d? Is there a special food that he likes that you could try to have on hand? Just some ideas.

I think you're doing great!


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08