Sooners first of all your w had to come when you were not around. The guilt and not wanting to face you is why she couldn't let you know. It's easier for her to sneek in grab a few things while you are not looking and be on her merry way.

It may seem like she is selfish right now and she is sure acting that way, but remember she is in a crisis right now. All you can do is love her from afar.

I do remember my h saying a long time ago when all of this went down, that now it's all about me. I am tired of doing everything for everybody and fixing all the problems. I don't want to do that anymore. Obviously very selfish attitude.

I still think my h is selfish for staying away, but all I can hope and pray that through all of this he finds his way back home.

Don't let these moves affect you, continue to stand for your m and keep praying.

This is so very tough!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"