I haven't been on the boards much this week, so I haven't posted any updates. Things are going OK. Sometimes I feel like we're back to where we were pre-bomb, which is not a good thing, since that must have contributed to the bomb in the first place. We had a big argument last Sunday when we were trying to get things organized around the house. He bought so many things when he was gone and while we were trying to get the house somewhat in order, I started to feel so resentful about the time when he was gone and I blew up. Ugh. Time to get past in and look ahead- I'm working on it.
Positives: we are planning a kids-free weekend away for our anniversary in Sept (!), we worked well together in painting the bathroom, I have a lot of new stuff in the house that I didn't know I needed , he tells me "ILY".