It sounds like you have a sitch very similar to mine. My wife asked me to stopping saying ILY, because she gave me a wierd look when I would say it to her after the bomb. Look at the bright side. At least she is willing to do something with you on a weekly basis! At this point I don't think my wife would give me the time of day.
MsMElancoly, I think you are right on about the WAS walking away from everthing good and bad. I think my W is running away and when there were signs with the distance between us growing about 2 months ago I felt it and didn't take action then. Maybe by that point we were already heading to this, and the night we had our huge argument and she dropped the bomb she was more than willing to cut ties because she had already developed some feelings for this OM. I just don't understand how she can just walkout though, I've been frustrated at times but never to the point of giving up...until after she walked out.
H - 37 (me) W - 34 M - almost 8 years, Dated 6 LYBNILWY - 7/23/2008 W says nothing can save the M - 8/05/2008, 8/17/2008 W admits E attraction with OM - 8/05/2008 no kids - four cats Previous post: What to do
