My other thought is..perhaps..instead of initiating all the time..maybe do something to create 'sexual tension', whether it be conversation, teasing, clothing, etc.......and let him initiate but know you're available? FIB
I did this just last nite! You guys are the best. Thanks for your encouragement and thoughts.
I just layed there next to him but let him know I was "available". It worked and he initiated!!!!!!
Thanks FIB you are a sweetheart! God bless.... ~Ali