Why the constant complaints?
Because you have made huge changes and become a better person. She needs to complain to remind herself and others why she's making the decision to leave. She'd rather think about those times than the good times that you had together. That way she doesn't have to second guess herself.

Your wife is a tough one as she gives no indication whatsoever as to what she's thinking. The divorce papers are never brought up, or even the divorce itself. The email was never even mentioned. She doesn't even get flirty/horny (for lack of a better word). Yet, she doesn't seem angry either.
She's confused for sure!

And the single life is never as good as it looks.

The grass isn't greener...it's astroturf.


Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."