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nc.. im sorry your still sick.. \:\(

My mom was willing to come over but I don't want her to get it so I told her to stay home.

Now I just found out that the Radio station that i did the commerical for for our Business wants a live meeting with us tomorrow on the morning show. Ok , so I told H to go that I didn't need to be there, this is "his business" anyway, and although I know a lot about it, he still knows more than me. He says, no I really need you to be there.. so I said as long as im up to it I will go. Since the kid are much better my mom will be ok with coming over tomorrow.

We'll see, Sometimes H leans on me too much.


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(((Tal))) Sorry to see your still not feeling any better. I would only go if you feel up to it, but its good he looks to you for your help (sometimes, not all the time.)

Take care and try to get some rest.

Corey


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Thats sugar baby \:\)

Im hoping my throat is better by tomorrow.

Sometimes I wish he was more interested in contacting his close friend to lean on , only because I think it would be good for him. too much of eachother I don't think is good either.

Thanks again corey \:\)


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Hey there, Tal. \:\)

I know what you mean by having your H leaning on you a tad much. It can feel overwhelming at times, can't it? Sometimes it would be nice if they could acknowledge and appreciate the fact that we, too, have our hands full just as much as they do.

One day...we can hope! ;\)

(((((((Get well soon!)))))))


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(((Tal))) Just checkin on you. Hope you are feeling better.


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Tal,

How did it go yesterday?
Read my last post on my thread Im'e looking for help for a little friend.

JAK


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gf&corey.. thank you.

Last night was horrible. The sores you have in your mouth with this thing is so gross and so painful. I had to run out to the drug store last night and got these patches for inside your mouth.. wow this morning there almost gone!! I couldn't believe it. I had so suck soup through a straw last night because I haven't eaten in 2 days. Im much much better today.

H has been mellow the last couple of days. He actually has been acknowledgeing the fact that im worn out and that I need time alone from the kids. Not a major deal, but he usually doesn't acknowledge it at all.


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Jak,

went good yesterday, H did well. I didn't say anything, just there for him.

Posted to you on your thread, and the article.

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Originally Posted By: tiredandlost

Last night was horrible. The sores you have in your mouth with this thing is so gross and so painful. I had to run out to the drug store last night and got these patches for inside your mouth.. wow this morning there almost gone!!


Ok Tal I draw the line at rubbing your chest with mentholated cream. There is no way I take care of yucky sores.....

Hope today is better.

Hey it’s FRIDAY..........

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yeah I don't blame you, Its pretty gross, but Im much better today.

We have a big even going on this wkend. Its a the same sponsorship for the radio station, but this is the actual event,its a car show and then they have some bands playing in the stadium thats near me. Its to benefit disabled children. Anyways, so H has to have his "rig" there and he has a booth. It will be an all day thing. Hopefully we will get some work out of it. I don't plan on going with him in the morning though,too much for the kids especially after the wk we had. I told him I would join him around lunch time. He was ok with that.

HOpe you are doing ok dr. love.. \:\)


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
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