Just wait until after the divorce, it gets worse. They almost completely forget that they wanted the divorce and then continue the blame game. It is a mind blower...
Yes, some have to go through this. It is a tough lesson and very difficult to watch but it does help them eventually sort through their emotions.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11