nlt,
Ouch, ouch, ouch! The nightmare gets worse! I'm soooo sorry to hear about this development!! I don't have any wise advice beyond the obvious--take care of yourself and pray a lot, and lean on trustworthy friends as needed--but I really feel for you, and I'm praying for you to be healed emotionally and experience peace.

Hugs and peace,
Dawn

Me 45/H 47, no kids
Together since 1985; M/1992
Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001
Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues
H left 11/24/08
minimal contact, no legal action
http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1