Thanks for your post! I will look at the book you suggested. I guess if we read these books with the mindset that they will help us in one way or another (with out without H :(), then maybe they are less "dangerous".
Funny thing is--don't know if you're the same--I never thought I was a control freak. I was pretty sure everybody loved the way I organized and got things done. I still think that some people do :), just not H...
Best of luck with everything, and I'll keep an eye on your posts and see how you're doing.
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
